Part 2 was posted yesterday In my earlier piece on joy I wrote about collective joy—the kind that can be experienced in larger groups of people engaging in a shared experience that brings them a sense of joy and connection, like dancing in the streets. Here I’m talking about a more personal kind of joy, shared […]
Reclaiming Our Birthright of Joy by Mary Gelfand
Researcher and therapist Brene Brown writes “I believe a joyful life is made up of joyful moments gracefully strung together by trust, gratitude and inspiration.”
So I collect and savor joyful moments.
Last winter I began a new journaling practice which asked me to list something for which I was grateful every day. Because I was actively seeking to bring more joy into my life, I also started listing the things that bought me joy. It did not take me long to realize that the two lists were virtually identical. Things I was grateful for almost always brought me joy, and vice versa. Thus I figured out for myself something Brown discovered in her research.
She says “I never talk about gratitude and joy separately …. In 12 years, I’ve never interviewed a single person who would describe their lives as joyful, who would describe themselves as joyous, who was not actively practicing gratitude.”
Actively practicing gratitude is a good strategy for bringing more joy into your life.
Collective Joy as Our Birthright by Mary Gelfand (part one)
Common Ground: Part Two: On Enclosure, the Commons, and Awe by Beth Bartlett
Common Ground: Part One: On Enclosure, the Commons, and Awe by Beth Bartlett
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Early Autumn; first frosty breath
PRACTICING GRATITUDE
What are you grateful for today?
Gratitude is a huge part of my practice and I’ll put some links to my Gratitude focused blog posts below as well.
GENERAL LINKS
- Gratitude is a verb
- How Gratitude Changes You and Your Brain
- Why gratitude is good for you
- Why I Quit My Gratitude Practice to Improve My Mental Health
- What You Need to Know About Toxic Positivity
- Giving thanks can make you happier
- How Gratitude Can Help You Through Hard Times
- Gratitude vs. Toxic Positivity: Here’s The Difference, From A Therapist
- 13 Most Popular Gratitude Exercises & Activities
- Gratitude
- What is Gratitude and Why Is It So Important?
- The how and why of practising gratitude
- 40 Simple Ways To Practice Gratitude
- 7 Scientifically Proven Benefits Of Gratitude That Will Motivate You To Give Thanks Year-Round
ACCESSIBLE PEER-REVIEWED ARTICLES
I read a lot of peer reviewed articles as part of my process through my diagnosis. Here are some fully accessible articles that I have read around gratitude practice.
- A systematic review of gratitude interventions: Effects on physical health and health behaviors
- Gratitude – more than just a platitude? The science behind gratitude and health
- Gratitude as a Psychotherapeutic Intervention
- Using a Gratitude Intervention to Improve the Lives of Women With Breast Cancer: A Daily Diary Study
- Spirituality and Gratitude as Predictors of the Quality of Life in Adult Cancer Patients
- Daily Feelings of Gratitude are Related to Better Mental Health Outcomes in Breast Cancer Patients: A Daily Diary Study
- Positive psychological functioning in breast cancer: An integrative review
- The Science of Gratitude
PEER-REVIEWED ARTICLES THAT REQUIRE PAYMENT OR UNIVERSITY ACCESS
- The Influence of Gratitude in Physical, Psychological, and Spiritual Well-Being
- Psychosocial health mediates the gratitude-physical health link
- Gratitude and health: An updated review
- Gratitude when it is needed most: Social functions of gratitude in women with metastatic breast cancer.
- The Role of Gratitude in Breast Cancer: Its Relationships with Post-traumatic Growth, Psychological Well-Being and Distress
- Mindful gratitude journaling: psychological distress, quality of life and suffering in advanced cancer: a randomised controlled trial
- Effects of a randomized gratitude intervention on death-related fear of recurrence in breast cancer survivors.
- Optimism, social support and psychosocial functioning among women with breast cancer
RELATED BLOG POSTS: GRATITUDE PRACTICE
- Practising Gratitude
- Gratitude Links Roundup
- Ask for help – then practice gratiude
- Gratitude Practice 12 of 12
- Gratitude Practice 11 of 12
- Gratitude Practice 10 of 12
- Gratitude Practice 9 of 12
- Gratitude Practice 8 of 12
- Gratitude Practice 7 of 12
- Gratitude Practice 6 of 12
- Gratitude Practice 5 of 12
- Gratitude Practice 4 of 12
- Gratitude Practice 3 of 12
- Gratitude Practice 2 of 12
- Gratitude Practice 1 of 12
- Gratitude practice 85 days of chemotherapy.
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- Sunday 24th October 2021: Cancer Journal 17 ~ Chemo Edition
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- Milestones along the way
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- Friday 23rd July 2021 (Cancer Journal 12)
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- Sunday 11th July 2021 (Cancer Journal 10)
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